Greetings! I am delighted you want to get married at St. Paul's Church in Troy. We get quite a number of requests each year from couples who would like to have their ceremony in our beautiful church. In former times it was customary for those wishing to be married to first seek out their pastor to help make the arrangements. Today, it is often the case that a couple will have made many of the preparations, such as setting the wedding date, and the venue for the reception, before deciding on a particular church.
When fielding inquiries it can be difficult for a parish priest to know exactly how to respond. On one hand, there is the desire to be welcoming and generous to people who are intending to make a life-long commitment, and who want to do this courageous act in a sacred place. On the other hand, there is the pastor's obligation to honor the requirements of his church. I also know It is difficult for non-members of the church to understand our customs and traditions.
I would be honored to solemnize your marriage at St. Paul's Church. The parish would like to do everything we can to accommodate your desire to be married at St. Paul's Church. Below are the minimum standards for marriage at St. Paul's Church.
1. The couple must meet the requirements for marriage in the Episcopal Church.
- The basic requirements are the following:
* That both parties have the right to contract a marriage according
to the laws of the State.
* That at least one of the persons being married must be a baptized Christian.
* That both parties have been instructed in the meaning of marriage.
* that if one of the persons being married is divorced, permission must be obtained for re-marriage from the Bishop of Albany.
2. The couple must meet with the rector at least four times for marriage preparation. Please allow six months for marriage preparation and a rehearsal.
3. After the first marriage preparation meeting, if the couple and priest agree to continue, a date for the wedding service will be chosen.
4. The rector or his designee (an Episcopal Priest) will preside at the wedding.
5. re: marriage license, fees, decorations, flowers, music, photography, etc.: These will be covered during the marriage preparation.
If you are interested please phone me to make an appointment at 518-273-7351, ext. 1.
Blessings,
Fr. Michael Gorchov, Rector
The Rev. Michael I. Gorchov
St. Paul's Church in Troy
58 Third St.
Troy, NY 12180
518-273-7351 ext. 1
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